Action and
Reaction
It has been
some time since I wrote anything on this blog page and even longer since I took
Storm on a hike with me. The sad fact of the matter is, Storm has become what
is known as a ‘reactive’ dog. I didn’t know what that was myself at first,
which only served to make the situation worse, unfortunately. Let me explain.
When we
first brought her home, we made very certain that she was well socialised and
met lots of people, dogs and situations. But she was always a rather shy and
sometimes nervous dog. If a plastic bag blew into the driveway from the road,
she would jump nervously. If people suddenly appeared when she wasn’t expecting
it, she would be very wary. If people came to the house, she would circle them,
keeping her distance, and studying them suspiciously. Not knowing any better, we tried more 'socialisation', giving her more opportunities to meet people and experiences usual and unusual.At first, the tactic seemed to be working.
But then we
made a massive mistake. We had the opportunity to go to Venice for a few days.
Obviously, we couldn’t take her with us, so we decided to leave her with the
person who ran our obedience class, as she took small numbers of dogs into her
home that she already knew from class. It seemed ideal. The trainer had three
dogs of her own and a doggy friend from Storm’s class was going to be staying
there too for some of the time, plus a ‘day care’ dog that Storm didn’t know.
We went on holiday believing we had done the best thing for our 8 month old
pup.
When we went
to collect her, she seemed more nervous than ever. Instead of rushing out to
greet us as we expected, she cowered under the table and refused to come out to
see OH. It was only when she heard me speak that she ran out to see us and
became excited that we had come for her. We put it down to her having not seen us for nearly a week (6 days) and maybe thinking we had abandoned her.
After that,
things started to go downhill rapidly. We met a group of school children in a
park who were keen to stroke her. At first, she accepted their attention, but
then suddenly and without warning, she snapped at one of the girls. Again, we
excused the behaviour, thinking she had had enough and was tired. But it didn’t
stop there. When people came to the house, she behaved so badly, she had to
have a lead on and eventually to be crated away from the visitors. Any loud
sounds – the doorbell, a dog barking, the TV, etc - invoked a cacophony of barking.
Meeting people, dogs, horses, children, cyclists, joggers while out walking –
she became a lunging, growling, snarling whirling dervish! Training went out of
the window (she still is unable to walk nicely on a loose lead, particularly
when she sees a ‘trigger’). And there are so many triggers!
We didn’t
understand it and thought she would ‘grow out of it’ – another huge mistake. A
reactive dog does not just ‘get over’ it. Storm had been nervous before and now
she was acting aggressively at anything that dared to move or enter what she
thought of as ‘her’ territory.
Last summer,
we went as usual to Scotland in the motorhome. I was more and more worried
about how Storm would react to other people, so she was more often kept on the
lead, even in the woods and on the beach. Then I discovered a lump on her head.
A day later, it was still there and had grown to twice what it had been. We
took her to the vet – and that was our first experience of ticks! She had three
– two on her head and one on her shoulder. I held Storm and the vet said she
would try to remove the ticks. Storm went for her, growling very aggressively
and snapping. Thankfully, she didn’t actually bite her, but she was way over
the threshold – we are learning a whole new vocabulary in relation to dog care
and training these days! The vet said she thought Storm was more than just
nervous and we could probably benefit from the services of a dog behaviouralist.
I was sceptical. While I was concerned about her behaviour, I still didn’t
think there was anything seriously wrong, or that a shrink was necessary.
But by the
end of the summer, I was researching animal behaviour and dog psychologists. It
was then that I discovered the term ‘reactive dogs’. Put simply, it means a dog
that over-reacts to ‘normal’ stimuli. So when a bus goes by, instead of walking
normally by your side, a reactive dog might (they are not all reactive to the
same things) lunge, growl and try to chase it away. Of course that is self
fulfilling. A bus is on a journey, taking no notice of your dog, but the dog
thinks that as the bus goes away, it is a direct result of him or her having
chased it, or growled at it.
We realised we too had a reactive dog. Storm would react to anything that moved, so we
began avoiding places where there were buses, cars, cycles, joggers, horses, dogs,
children - you name it! It reduced drastically the places we could go and the
times we could go there.
The theme
that ran through most of the internet searches I found was that the dog needed
to be ‘socialised’. If they had been socialised as puppies, then they needed
more socialisation. I had done my best to socialise her from the moment we got
her, and had tried the additional socialising, so I was not convinced that this was the right thing to do for her, but I
did try putting her in situations that caused her to react, in order to try to
train her to react differently. Needless to say, that method didn’t work at
all! In fact, it made her worse. I was inadvertently training her to react to
stimuli, not to overcome them. This technique is known as ‘flooding’. A dog is
scared of or aggressive towards a certain item; so you make them face that item
over and over and over. But doing the same thing and hoping for a different
result is crazy! If you are scared of spiders, the theory of flooding says you
need to be exposed to spiders more and more – better still, put yourself in a
room full of spiders. Chances are, instead of overcoming your fear of spiders,
you will curl up in a ball in the corner and scream!! And you will be all the worse for the experience. Same with our dogs –
flooding really does not work. But it seemed like the correct thing to do at
the time, so we tried it and failed.
Then of
course, the internet was flooded with ‘the dog whisperer’ – the trick, he
claims, is to teach your dog who is the pack leader. If they behave badly, then
it is because you are not dominant enough and your dog doesn’t see you as the
Boss. I have since discovered that the ‘pack leader’ theory is nonsense. Domestic
dogs do not run in packs; human beings cannot be a pack leader in a dog’s
world. Besides the so-called ‘expert’ has actually no training in dog
psychology and has been videoed hitting a dog in the side of the head. I didn’t
want to use methods like that; better to be kind, not harsh.
We also
began avoiding places where people walked their dogs. Which meant no walks
along the railway path near our home. Far too many dogs there are off lead –
with owners who shout ‘he’s well trained’ (while their dog totally ignores
their attempts to recall them), or ‘don’t worry, he’s friendly’ – well it isn’t
YOUR dog I’m concerned about; it’s mine!
Finally,
Storm and I went for a walk. She was let off the lead and was running happily
around. Then I noticed a woman coming the other way, just around a
corner. I couldn’t see if she had a dog with her as tall grass obscured my view
– but yes, she had. I called Storm, intending to put her on the lead, and she
was coming towards me, when the woman kicked a stone or something. Storm’s head
flicked round and she saw the woman and the dog, just as they emerged from
behind the tall grass. Storm went into ‘collie mode’ and did the collie crouch
thing – crawling along on her stomach, as a dog would that is herding sheep.
She was totally deaf to me calling her or trying to get her attention and
completely focused on the other dog – which was on a lead. Storm has never
really understood leads and is much worse when either she or the other dog is
tied to one. I started to run towards Storm; Storm started to run towards the
woman. I called out to her to ignore Storm and just keep going. To her credit,
she did exactly as she was told (more than I could say for Storm), but Storm,
seeing the other dog was on a lead, ran at it, growling and snarling something
terrible. I am sure the poor woman thought she or her dog was going to be savaged! I
jogged on past, calling Storm, who decided I was much more interesting at that
point than a dog on a lead and came after me. I put her straight on the lead
and sher stayed that way for the rest of our walk.
It was at
that point, I knew I needed some help! Storm’s behaviour was way out of control
and things could not continue as they were. By this time, we were more than a
year after our holiday in Venice and things were just getting worse and worse.
My research
eventually (not without some mistakes along the way) took me to an internet
site called CARE, a facebook page called Reactive Dogs UK (it's a closed group, so I can't link to it) and to a dog trainer
who really understands and works with reactive dogs (Jamie Muir, at Durham Dog Care). He’s quite expensive, so we
haven’t had loads of sessions with him, but we do know now what to do and some
training techniques to use to help. It is important that Storm is not placed in
situations that put her ‘over the threshold’ – ie where she can’t cope, is on
high alert and as a result is incapable of listening to instruction or of being
distracted. It is also important that she learns to trust me to keep her safe –
if we see a ‘trigger’ (ie a stimulus I know will cause her to over react), then
it is my job to ensure she doesn’t feel threatened by it, so we need to keep a ‘safe’
distance. I have learned about CARE (excellent website with a video showing how counter conditioning works), DS/CC, BAT, distraction techniques (it is
hard to stop your dog reacting to the TV!) and T-Touch, wraps, as well as methods of getting
people/strangers to keep their distance. For instance, I now have a fluorescent
yellow tabard with the words ‘DOG IN TRAINING; DO NOT APPROACH’ printed on it.
It is never a good idea to say ‘my dog is nervous’ or worse ‘my dog is
aggressive’, as then you are liable under the dangerous dogs act for having an
out-of-control dog.
We also have
a Baskerville Ultra muzzle. I said to our trainer that I would feel I had failed Storm if she had
to wear a muzzle; he pointed out that I would have failed her more if she bit
someone and we were forced to have her put to sleep. I went straight out and
bought a muzzle after that! She still isn’t 100% happy wearing it, but it did
save the day when she had to go for her inoculations. I dread to think what she
might have done when the vet stuck the needle in had she not been wearing it! Rather
than seeing it as a restriction and something that is ‘nasty’ for the dog, I
have come to look at the muzzle as something that keeps my dog safe. And
really, that’s what it is all about – Storm needs to know that I am able to
keep her safe, no matter what the situation. When people ask why she wears it,
I simply tell them that it stops her from eating things she shouldn’t – of course
that also includes people’s legs and children, but I don’t tell them that bit!!
Not that I think she would actually bite someone, but if she felt cornered,
then who knows? It is better to be safe than sorry. The Baskerville allows the dog to eat treats, while preventing him/her from biting/eating things it shouldn't.
Another term
we have learned is ‘fear aggression’. The dog might respond aggressively,
especially if they cannot run away, but they are not actually aggressive dogs –
they are simply afraid of whatever the situation is and they respond in the
only way they know how – barking, growling, or attempting to bite. Growling is
a warning: keep away; barking is a louder warning: you didn’t listen; I really
want to you keep away. Biting is the last resort of a cornered dog.
So what
caused it for Storm? We can only speculate. Her mother was a shy dog too, so
maybe high stress levels run in the genes. But more often than not, reactivity
is triggered by an unpleasant event and the dog responds in fear (hence the
term ‘fear aggression’). But more
likely, it was during our time away in Venice. Was she attacked by another dog?
Was she frightened because we weren’t there to protect her? We really do not
know, but we can pinpoint the change in her behaviour to that few days away –
starting with her hiding under the table when OH approached her on our return.
We have made
a lot of mistakes – tried the wrong techniques, gone to the wrong classes, seen
the wrong people, flooding, dominance and so on. But finally, having found a
good trainer, who is only a phone call or email away, I finally believe we are
on the road to recovery. I understand that we may never have the wonderful,
calm dog we had hoped for (and it isn’t just because she’s a border collie!!), and she might never do agility (can't go to classes), but at least we can now understand what is going on with Storm (she is not just
being naughty) and start to work on her issues, desensitising her and counter
conditioning her to have different responses.
I will end
this post by posting a cartoon I saw. It describes exactly what I am
trying to achieve.
The
idea behind it is that we condition our dog to associate good things with the
thing that scared them. We have a long way to go, but I am hoping Storm will
one day think ‘cheese van’, or ‘cheese horse’ or ‘cheese children’ whenever she
sees a stimulus.
And
we are STILL working on loose lead walking J
What an amazing blog post, written so well and really shows your understanding and sympathy for your dog ... you are on the right track well done xxxx
ReplyDeleteThank you; I can but try and mistakes have been made, but hopefully both Storm and I are learning from them and who knows? One day we might still be able to do those things we have dreamed of
DeleteSo sorry to hear of Storm's problems. It sounds like you are a very good and caring owner and are doing the very best for her. I really hope things work out for you all.
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